27 Nov 2012

When you’re overwhelmed by everyone else’s Christmas

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Christmas in South Africa was always hot. Kids gathered around the tree, sunburns still stinging. “I’m dreaming of a white Christmas” pounding hopefully out over the radio. Our tree was always a live one and the years we gathered at Ouma and Oupa’s house in the Cape they’d use the old fashioned candle clips – attaching live candles with their drippy red and white wax to the fresh branches. No one thought it odd. There were crackers for pulling before keep reading…

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08 Aug 2012

A prescription for tired moms

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I slipped out of my mommy skin tonight. For three stolen hours I remembered who I am apart from the small hands that pull on me and the high pitched voices that only know me as mommy and not as Lisa-Jo. I sat in a dark theater and exhaled the Destin and diaper changes and three am feedings as four women poured music into my soul. My friend, Anja, said it made her want to sing. It made me want keep reading…

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27 Jul 2012

Five Minute Friday: Beyond

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It’s #FiveMinuteFriday free write time! <—click to tweet this! Where a flash mob of folks spend five minutes all writing on the same topic and then share ‘em over here. Want to know how Five Minute Friday got started and how to participate? All the details are here. And every week I’ll pick a post that caught my eye and share it down there in my side bar – see where it says “Featured Five Minute Friday”? Yea -that could keep reading…

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09 Jul 2012

How to not splinter your daughter’s heart – epilogue

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Our family is off to the lake and the woods on vacation this week. Where there’s no Internet. So I’m sharing five of my favorite posts from the last couple years while I’m gone. I hope they’ll be favorites for you too. Wishing you watermelon afternoons and sand between the toes. Zoe, I have worried a long time that I would not be a good mother to a daughter. I carry a blue suitcase stuffed full of the heavy memories keep reading…

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13 Apr 2012

Five Minute Friday: Good-Bye

Around here we write for five minutes flat on Fridays. We set a timer, throw caution to the winds and try to remember what it was like to just write without worrying if it’s just right or not. Want to play Five Minute Friday? It’s easy peasy! 1. Write for 5 minutes flat on the prompt- no editing, no over thinking, no backtracking 2. Link back here and invite others to join in. 3. Meet & encourage someone who linked keep reading…

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