The hardest gift I ever gave my son

The hardest gift I ever gave my son

In early memory, mission music was ringing around my nursery door. I was born in Zululand. And lived my first three years there before moving inland again in South Africa. My dad was a recently graduated doctor working on a remote mission hospital. My mom was brave....
Why we never need to feel lost in translation

Why we never need to feel lost in translation

I couldn’t speak a work of Russian when we arrived in Ukraine. Nor any Ukrainian either, come to think of it. It never occurred to me that I wouldn’t be able to read street signs, subway maps or store fronts. I felt like I was two years old all over again....
How to really make kids feel loved

How to really make kids feel loved

I was asked that in an interview. How do you encourage/support/champion kids? And my answer was simple: encourage/support/champion their mothers. Because the every-dayness of every day can get moms down. The routine. The one more load of wash. The endless round trips...

Pregnant with Christmas, Part 2: The Dancing

As we travel toward December 25th, I will be marking the four weeks of Advent with this series – Pregnant with Christmas. With one child born two days after Christmas and my tummy full of another one right now, so many of my thoughts are on that teenage mother...