U-turn days

You think a day is going to go one way and then your two-year-old projectile vomits all down your front and into your lap. Those moments are out-of-body experiences. Because, as much as your mind might be freaking out about the partially digested hamburger that is...
What full circle looks like

What full circle looks like

Fourteen years ago I stood in the same place I stood tonight. I was 21 and about to fall for the Midwestern boy with the green eyes who was trying to steal third base. Spring on the Washington DC mall – it was a cherry blossom love story. I couldn’t have...
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How do you talk to a 4-year-old about Easter

I am not good at crafts. I am not the mom who will beautifully dye and decorate eggs or create an Easter tree. I admire Spring wreaths from afar and instead let my boys wallow in the Spring mud up close. I feel hopelessly inadequate in the face of all the remarkable...
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On anchors and socks and storms

There’s a small, dirty sock in the hallway. It anchors me. No matter what storms of worry might rage. No matter how small the boat might seem. That smaller-yet-still sock anchors me. It anchors me to this And this in turn leads me hand-over-hand, down the...

I wonder why I never

I wonder why I never went back to my childhood church after I returned to South Africa I wonder why I never told the first boy that said he loved me that I loved him back. I wonder why I never remember to close the microwave door after using it. I wonder why I never...
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Some perspectives are better than others

Pete and I are 35 and still have never owned a house. We rent a quirky little home with a backyard that is at times better suited to bundu-bashing than games of baseball or catch. The carpets are stained with melted play-doh and mud has been tracked in irreversible...