In the season of rain, pray for rain

In the season of rain, pray for rain

I pray at the kitchen sink more than anywhere else. I think it’s something to do with the soothing warm water and the fact that washing dishes is a focused task. Compared to, say, cleaning up the living room, which has me rabbit trailing between toys and books and the...

How a 3×5 index card changed my life

You know that I work full time outside the home, right? I’ve whined shared about it here often enough. Last week it took me away from home and my boys for four full days. And four days in toddler time is basically an eternity. But after I got home, wrassled my boys,...

I write because

I write because it’s one of the times I feel most like myself. I write because, like others, I need a place to re-tell my  story and process it’s twists and turns. I trace my fingers over the memories of the day or last year, reading the raised braille of...

Parenting ain’t always pretty

Sometimes parenting is a sonnet. Filled with moonlit, rocking chair, baby skin-to-skin moments. But sometimes, it is just not. Sometimes there are no words to beautify the exhausting moments of parenting. There is only a new kind of carpet cleaner cracked open for the...